Newbies to Game seriously need to understand this.

To the extent that Gamers try explicit dominance, they are hurting their chances and cutting off their access to 8s, 9s, and 10s. These girls can choose guys who are supremely self-assured AND who don't seek any reaction from them, AND who exhbiit some level of emotional investment in them. Asshole game rarely gets you past a 7. Remember, the top of the girl chain can be REALLY choosy and doesn't have to compromise between competing sets of instincts within her. She can get them all.

June 1, 2010 6:07:00 PM EST
Picky Coz I Can Bd said...
Anonymous, even those of us who are NOT top-of-the-girl-chain 10s can and DO choose non-asshole men.

Women that allow themselves to be controlled have issues, low-self-esteem being one of them, but usually one's self-esteem is linked to other issues (childhood).

June 1, 2010 7:30:00 PM EST
Robin said...
I agree - To an extent. I want a dominant male, but I don't want one like you describe. I know I need a strong man to put up with me because I am a very strong minded woman, but I also want one who respects me.

There is a man in my life, very dominant in personality, knows what he want and has an inner strength. He's not an asshole, but he's not your typical nice guy either. That's the combination that works. He keeps me off balance enough for me to find him exciting, but not so much that I don't feel comfortable with him. If he did a complete 180 and lost the edge that attracted me, of course I'd start to find him boring. It's all about the balance... Find that and there is success.

June 1, 2010 8:41:00 PM EST
Anonymous said...
"I was abused WHILE PREGNANT and you're telling me deep down I fucking LIKED IT?"